There are people in this world who would take us for granted. They would do nothing to prove they appreciate what we do or even be grateful. There are other people who are simply toxic, dusting us with their poison, they would treat us poorly and they wouldn’t give us the respect nor the value that we deserve. These people can range from friends, colleagues, family members, romantic partners, bosses, to even strangers.
Therefore, standing out for ourselves and learning how to say NO can call it quits. Unfortunately, some women still struggle with the fact they have no choice but to submit to the other party’s authority and choose to be treated poorly either because of their love or helplessness.
Being able to detect their harmful behavior is step number one towards mitigating their effects. We might not be able to change what they’re doing, but we should change how we’re dealing with it.
A lot of things exist that toxic people use to exploit others and circumstances to their benefit. And it can severely damage our mental and emotional health, particularly if we are helpless against them.
Here’s why you shouldn’t let anyone, no matter who they are treat you wrongly:
You weren’t born into this universe to waste your life, good heart, and affection on somebody who doesn’t respect you.
Start loving yourself and taking care of your own well-being, and life will start unfolding for you. Let’s pull off the blindfold love has placed over your eyes. If they’re never around for you, no matter how much you need them, that’s not okay. If they can’t have time or energy to be part of your life, that’s not okay. Know your worth.
They should treat you with respect and support, and love you the way you’re supposed to
We don’t want to think poorly about the person we’ve given everything to. We like them to be good, sweet, and ideal in our eyes. A reason why we’ve never allowed ourselves to admit that they’re really exploiting us very badly. Recognizing and admitting that someone is hurting you with their actions is the first step in addressing this big problem.
No matter how much you love someone, you can’t let them break you apart.
Love can not be one-sided. The one who really loves you will always have your best interests at heart. The one who really cares will never purposely hurt you or make you suffer. If they are treating you the way you’re never going to treat them, yet you keep trusting them, now is the time to break the vicious circle.
No one gets to hurt you, no matter how much they mean to you.
This is the type of toxic person you never want in your life. Don’t let them treat you like you are unworthy of love, and don’t let them ever harm you again.
Reference: https://herway.net/love/dont-allow-someone-to-treat-you-poorly/
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